positive thinking

everyone has something to say about positive thinking , reorganizing life , making things in order , but on the ground only few people succeed in doing the programme , the first reason of this failure is very simple , we're not used to do so ( it should always has been someone to give us a list about what is to do in our life ) , we're all influenced by someone in our daily life , and in general we're influenced by the whole system , even if it's a corrupted one , the majority of people feel the need to be protected under a system no matter if it's good or bad , they do that because they have a deep belief of their incapability to create their own way of life , having a positive thinking about life is the only way to improve ourselves and to realize our dreams and projects ,and i'm sure the lack of positive thinking is one of the main reasons of our backwardness in the arab world , i really feel bitterness when i see millions of young people lost in their life , they're not even aware of the responsability waiting them , they're shocked , confused about their choices in life , inable to understand what's happening in their homeland and around the world , who's wrong and who's right , they have no reference or criteria to distinguish between good and evil , nobody told them enough about life , about the reason of their existence , about their identity !!!! , they were educated to be "things" , " you're all the same , you're all equal , brothers and sisters , serving the nation , don't thing about anything , we're doing it for you , all you have to do is to be loyal to the nation , your provider " , and beyond the borders of the nation another nation teaching it's children the same principles of the loyalty but with a different flag and a different leader .